I’m going to share my own life / biz changing story in a moment… But before I do, I want you take a deep breath and take this in…
And promise me, you’ll read this, screen grab it, print it out, save this post and SHARE it with everyone you know who needs to HEAR this today…
Because this lesson is going to be life freaking changing for you, your business and your life!
God knows, so many of us have felt like this at one time or another.
You’re fighting with every ounce of your life to keep your dream alive…
And yet… It’s not happening the way you planned… The success, the money, the freedom, the heart pounding exhilaration that you dreamed of… It’s there…
But the days of disheartenment are becoming more frequent… And you’re wondering what the hell your next move is.
You’re having one of those days where you’re not feeling as confident, you’re doubting yourself… your ability.
The dream is still alive in a big way, but the energy isn’t there, you’re wondering if you’re cut-out for this, even though there’s no way you want to quit… You couldn’t imagine your life without doing this. It’s everything to you!
But there’s gotta be something else, something deeper that you need to do, you’re not sure what… But you’re determined to make this happen.
You go to bed with major plans for the next day, you get up, and see the extra zero’s or $’s that you hoped would come in, haven’t. You’re thinking, “WTF!? C’,mon universe what gives?”
That promotion that you put out… No responses.
The heart wrenching feeling of you pouring your soul into what you’re doing… You can’t figure out why you can’t get to that next level.
SO HERE’S SOME KICK ASS INSPIRATION FOR YOU TODAY…
Years ago… I went through an experience that would’ve left most people throwing in the towel on their online business.
I hired a coach who was so far out of alignment with me… the crappy advice, the poor coaching, the attempts to change me to someone who I wasn’t, the attitude towards people and clients… Everything… it sucked.
The whole experience destroyed my business, my income, affected my marriage. But most of all, my spirit was literally smashed, stomped on, broken… I felt like I’d had my soul ripped out of me.
I TAKE FULL RESPONSIBILITY FOR THIS…
Because when I hired this coach, I felt like there was something wrong with me. Yes, I’m kick ass, but I’m also compassion and soul based. I felt like I wasn’t good enough – like I had to be “like” this coach – and the peeps this coach was involved with – to achieve new heights of success.
When it all came crashing down, I was a mess. I sobbed for days, everything I had worked for, was destroyed and I had to start again. From scratch.
AFTER A COUPLE OF WEEKS OF MINDSET WORK ON MYSELF… I DUSTED MYSELF OFF AND DECIDED 5 MAJOR THINGS FOR MYSELF…
(I want you to take note here… Because this can apply to your situation too.)
1. I’m freaking proud of who I am… That I’m different, I love that I give a shit about people. That I feel passionately about transforming people’s lives, and changing the world on a deeper level.
2. I learnt exactly how NOT to treat clients and people… I would do the exact OPPOSITE of what this coach had done. And honour everything that was true and genuine to me.
3. THAT I NEEDED TO STEP UP, OWN who I am! Move forward! Be the person who wants to bring out their own freaking awesome inner rockstar… Could feel mind blowingly driven, inspired, motivated, and create a faster track to success… TO FLOURISH and THRIVE in a way that I had never done before…
…BEING ABSOLUTELY ME!
4. THAT THIS WAS MY BIGGEST VALUABLE LESSON IN BUSINESS and would fire me up to be the STAND OUT LEADER that I BELIEVED was possible for driven introverts like me, who knew they could CHANGE THE WORLD, being confident and kick ass in their unstoppable belief of themselves.
5. It gave me the opportunity to dig deep and understand my own ROCKSTAR AWESOMENSS!
Before this “situation”, I was the chick who stood up for people, who went into bat for people who were being crapped on. I stood for what was important to me and my core values…
I was a introvert, compassionate, deep caring firecracker like my beautiful Mum. And steadfast, hard working, driven, passionate and creative like my father. Both of them have amazing faith in each other, in God, and me and taught me so much about how to treat others and especially about gratitude.
I feel so damn lucky that they are my parents.
So what happened, why did I make such poor judgement that bought about this crappy situation?…
Basically I allowed myself to not believe in myself enough.
BUT HERE’S THE COOL PART!
I COULD’VE QUIT… AND LET’S FACE IT, MOST PEOPLE WOULD…
But I have a STRONG entrepreneurial spirit!
And even though it felt broken, I knew something massively more amazing was around the corner for me.
This was my time to step-up and allow this new found passion to surge me forward with peace, forgiveness for my myself – not play the victim – for putting myself and my husband in this situation.
And to soar in a way that I never thought could be possible for me.
HERE’S HOW I MOVED UP AND MOVED ON IN A MASSIVE WAY …
a. I went mindset and manifesting crazy! I worked like crazy on it!
b. I focused on asking for guidance from God, the Universe… to help me find a group of women to connect with, that I knew were abso-freaking-lutely in alignment with me. That we could inspire, uplift and help each other rock our businesses and lives… REALLY REALLY GO FOR IT! And it happened.
c. I manifested working with one of AUSTRALIA’S LEADING women business, marketing and freaking amazing mindset coaches. Which CHANGED MY LIFE!
When you have the RIGHT COACH, who is perfect for you, who gets you, who believes in you, who has your back, who truly truly TRULY understands what you need. YOU FREAKING SOAR!
This is what helped me STAND IN MY POWER, being the best freaking coach that I am.
d. I focused on my talents and what I rocked at. Things that I was scared to do in the past! I went for it. Yes there were times when I had BIG resistance… but I was lucky I had an amazing coach and mastermind group to pull me through.
e. I let go of the need to struggle… The stuff that kept coming up that would hold me back. And believe me, this comes back here n there. Even when you work your ass off on it… But it’s easier to address and move forward when you’re skilled at it.
f. I found my deep soul purpose! I knew what my unique brilliance was. Many people go through life, not knowing this. I own it, and I freaking love it! I’m really really good at what I do. I can confidently say that, without a doubt!
When you love what you do, when you’re exceptional at it… It ramps up your productivity and drive in a major way.
g. I used step by step strategies that worked for me. They may not have been what others would’ve used, but they were no fluff and results based…
I love strategy that’s thought provoking and soul based. That makes you dig deep so when you are creating everything from packages, pricing, marketing, branding, sales calls, converting clients… It all comes from deep inside you. Your “rockstar self” (the real you), is so in sync with it.
h. That everything would be about creating an experience my clients, and for me, that was unique. And that I would only work with clients that I felt in alignment with.
Which is why I chat with people before they work with me, why I have confidential applications for people to throw themselves into and share with me what they really need help with.
This is why even if someone isn’t always a good fit at one time, will nearly always come back to me later, and kick ass big time. Because I create relationships with people. They know I’m there, when the time is right.
i. I got super crystal clear about everything! The clarity was amazing! I’m awesome at creating clarity!
j. Finally, there’s more, but I’ll be writing this post for days, if I don’t finish at this point…
I up-levelled my manifesting and mindset. I pushed the boundaries of what I may have considered as limits to what I could achieve.
Even though we sometimes say “oh yeah, I can manifest this or achieve that goal”… When you’re truly faced with it, it can knock you for a six.
I challenge myself a lot on this, to step up with manifesting goals…
Breaking down those bocks… helps clear the way for more abundance, success, income, awesomeness, and showing up as your rockstar real self.
IF YOUR ENTREPRENEURIAL “ROCKSTAR” SPIRIT IS BROKEN…
KNOW THAT YOU CAN TRANSFORM YOURSELF, YOUR BUSINESS IN A MAJOR FREAKING WAY… DON’T DOUBT THAT FOR A MOMENT!
I look back now and it blows me away how far I’ve come! I feel so freaking grateful.
I couldn’t have dreamed back then of being where I am now.
Believe you can change whatever you want!
Make the decision to do it!
Massive hugs, luv ya to bits…I hope this inspires you today!
– Business Strategist, Marketing, Money and Mindset Coach
– Personal Fitness Trainer and Fat Loss Transformation Expert
PS: If you know, that it’s your time to invest in yourself, value yourself, and understand the impact this will have if you throw yourself into BECOMING THE TRUE LEADER AND ROCK STAR THAT YOU ARE…
If you want to work with a coach that has your back, where we can focus on empowering you with kick ass business and marketing strategies – this about leveraging your time, working on mindset and creating a rock star success energy and clarity… I want my clients to take massive leaps in their own business and with their bodies. Blow it out of the water!
Then reach out to me, complete the application form below… And we’ll have a no-pressure, inspiring vibe, conversation with you about where you’re at with your business, and we’ll discover if the “ROCK STAR” 1:1 Acceleration Business Platinum Coaching is a good fit for you.
Worse case scenario…? Actually there is none!… 🙂
If we’re not a good fit, I’ll give you some awesome tips / ideas to move forward, get organised with your biz or mindset and you’ll walk away ready to prepare for the next round of coaching. Either way, you’ll be feeling freakin awesome!
GO YOU! YOU = ROCKSTAR!
hugs, Mandy xo