Harden the f–k up… This term has been spewed about for years.
For someone like myself who comes from a place of compassion, and YES I absolutely do dish out tough love 🙂 and tell it straight a lot, and make people dig deep and take action… but I’m simply not into the “harden the f–k up / princess” statement.
Whether it’s toughin the f–k up, harden the f–k up… Just remember it’s just a term. It’s totally cool if you’re not into it.
I constantly speak with people who don’t “get it” and feel that it means (see below)… and consider themselves to be not worthy of their goals because of it.
They’re confused…
Does that mean they should ignore their gut instincts and not care about themselves or anyone else?
Does it mean they should just act like assholes and crap on people to reach their goals?
Does it mean they can’t be themselves with their body’s, life and business? That they can only succeed if they’re not themselves and have to act like hard core ball crushers that they see on tv, online etc .
Truth is, it means what you “feel” it means. If you don’t like it, move on and don’t take the term on if it’s not you. Here’s the thing…
Everyone has their own personality, you simply just need to get comfy with you and who you are, what you stand for with your body and life goals.
You need to put in the work, whether it be your workouts, your nutrition, your dream body goals, your fat loss, your life goals, your entrepreneurial goals. You can’t sit there and complain that you’re not getting results if you don’t take action.
I personally love motivated take action women and men. I love being around people that have succeeded, and are succeeding, with their amazing rocking bodies, their life and their entrepreneurial goals. I get excited when I’m listening to people achieving their dreams and getting stuff done.
I also know that everyone has mindset work to do. And everyone that you see that’s kicking ass with their goals has done mindset work in one way or another. They’re in that head space to “feel” abundance and success and live it… even during those times when they feel like they’re kind of out of alignment, they’re prepared to get in there and work it out. Whether it be their fat loss, their body, their life, their business and entrepreneurial goals. They put the work in.
With my own clients, I’m very much about addressing the mindset, nutrition, workouts, body, their life and entrepreneurial goals… AND I’m also very much about inspiring and motivating them, coming from a place of totally rockin it, to take action in a big way and actually make their goals happen.
And YOU can absolutely succeed with your body and life without having to crap on people, or come from a place of fake and nasty at all costs. You don’t have to be someone else.
And if you are into doing that then karma or the universe is probably going to bite you on the ass. 🙂 Because of what you’re putting out there.
Don’t get side-tracked or phased by the “hardening the f–k up”. Focus on getting in there and taking action.
And believing with, and in, your heart and soul, with a passion that drives you, that gets you excited to get up every morning and conquer your dreams, to make an impact and inspire others. Even the most successful people have fears. And what might be scary for them, isn’t scary for you, and vice versa.
Do the inner work and the outer work, BRINGING OUT the ultimate version of you… and rocking YOUR body and your life!
It’s YOUR BODY, YOUR LIFE, YOUR FAT LOSS, YOUR DREAMS, YOUR ENTREPRENEURIAL GOALS…
Be YOU. Fall in love with yourself, your body, your life and your goals… Now go kick some butt, you know you’re oozing awesomeness, and create a NEW term that represents YOU!
Massive hugs
Mandy xoxo
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